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That’s the exhausting truth of perfectionism, and, unfortunately, most of us have been tricked into thinking that "catching the tortoise" is the only way to win.

Before it became a hashtag or an excuse to make reckless life choices, carpe diem had a much simpler meaning. The phrase comes from the Roman poet Horace, who used it in his Odes around 23 BCE. The entire line—Carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero—translates to Seize the day, putting as little trust as possible in the future.

Ego death is a concept that many associate with spiritual enlightenment or intense life events, but in reality, it’s a much more universal experience that touches everyone at some point. It’s not a literal “death,” but rather a profound psychological shift where the boundaries we’ve placed around our identity begin to dissolve.

But coffee, much like that perfect bar, isn’t just about the drink itself—it’s the reason to meet, the excuse to step out of your routine, and the place where connections happen.

Ah, the eternal struggle: when to open your mouth and say something and when to just keep sipping that coffee and mind your own business. It's an art, really. The balance between stepping up for what’s right and keeping your head down to avoid unnecessary drama can be delicate.

The flag, meticulously folded and presented with such care, is much more than a symbol of a nation. It represents legacy—the heritage passed down through generations—and honor.

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Common sense is genius dressed in its working clothes.” This makes you wonder if Common Sense has retired, hung up its working clothes, poured a stiff drink, slumped down on the couch, remote in hand, and turned its back on us entirely.

But what about a moral compass? Do we all come equipped with one, like a free bonus in our human starter kit? Order now and receive a moral compass plus a set of steak knives!

And therein lies the heart of the issue. We are shocked when people in the spotlight behave decently because somewhere along the way, we’ve come to expect the opposite.

True leaders are rare and unique, but true leaders aren’t always “natural born” leaders. They can be taught to see a moment and seize it or be smart, add their skills to a situation, and lead that way. Anyone can be a leader.

 But here’s the thing—if simplicity is the answer, why does it feel like the world keeps pushing us towards more?

In academia, you’re in a supportive environment where time moves at a more leisurely pace. You’re encouraged to explore, make mistakes, and improve in a nurturing environment. The focus is on growth and learning, and you're given plenty of room to experiment, without much of the pressure of deadlines.

Companies are calling employees back to their desks, signaling the end of our remote-work comfort zone. Like the great migration of 1.5 million wildebeest across the Serengeti, we’re preparing for a collective upheaval—a transition back to the office.

But here’s the question: Are morning rituals actually that important? Do they help us get our act together and focus on the day ahead?

This isn’t about politics or party. A free press is a cornerstone of democracy, ensuring accountability, transparency, and truth for all—no matter where you stand.